Episode #118 The Five Hidden Love Questions
Dr. Victor Frank is certified in clinical hypnotherapy (twice) and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (also twice), as well as Havening Techniques®. He also developed Creative Repatterning, my proprietary method for overcoming internal blocks and establishing new behaviors through the science of neuroplasticity. Has given 3 TEDx talks by invitation and the creator of the online course "Super Charisma: How to Be a Transformative Speaker", which was the highest-rated public speaking course on Udemy.
His book The Tao of Dating has sold 100,000+ copies by word of mouth only and was the highest-rated dating book on Amazon for 8 years.
In this episode, we cover the following:
- What sparked Dr. Victor's interest in this topic?
- The first book: "Tao of Dating”
- Approach to research
- Relationship assets and values matching
- ASKOR Criteria
- The 5 Hidden Questions
- The importance of curiosity and assessing fit when dating
- Thoughts on deleting social media
- The five pillars of human thriving
- Design your happiness process
Helpful links:
- The 5 Hidden Love Questions: Radically Simple Strategies to Date Smarter, Own Your Power, and Flourish (The Tao of Dating) by Dr. Victor Frank
- The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible by Dr. Victor Frank
- Resources
- For Meditation Audios
- The Spread of Obesity in a Large Social Network over 32 Years by Nicholas A. Christakis, M.D., Ph.D., M.P.H., and James H. Fowler, Ph.D.
- Another Look at Whether a Rising Tide Lifts All Boats by James R. Hines, Jr., Hilary Hoynes, Alan B. Krueger
- Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now Hardcover by Jaron Lanier
- Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
- The photon-avalanche effect: review, model and application bu M.-F. Joubert, S. Guy, B. Jacquier, C. Linarés
- The Third Body by Robert Bly
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“His book The Tao of Dating has sold 100,000+ copies by word of mouth only and was the highest-rated dating book on Amazon for 8 years.”
Frequently asked
What are the Five Hidden Love Questions?
Dr. Victor Frank describes five underlying questions people unconsciously ask when sizing up a potential partner, covering fit, values and relationship assets. Working through them honestly helps people date more intentionally.
What is Dr. Victor Frank's ASKOR criteria?
ASKOR is Dr. Victor Frank's framework for assessing relationship assets and values matching between two people, used to evaluate compatibility beyond surface attraction.
Does Dr. Victor Frank think deleting social media improves relationships?
The episode discusses the case for stepping back from social media alongside Dr. Victor Frank's broader ideas about curiosity, presence and genuine fit when dating.
What book do the Five Hidden Love Questions come from?
They are the framework in Dr. Victor Frank's book The 5 Hidden Love Questions, a follow-up to his earlier bestseller The Tao of Dating.
References
- Listen: The Five Hidden Love Questions— The Rose Woman Podcast
- The Tao of Dating— Dr. Victor Frank
- The Spread of Obesity in a Large Social Network over 32 Years— New England Journal of Medicine
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Christine Marie Mason is the founder and CEO of Rosebud Woman, a leading brand in women’s intimate wellness and self-care. She is the author of six books on embodiment, intimacy, and awakening, and the host of The Rose Woman podcast—ranked in the top 5% worldwide. A longtime yoga and consciousness teacher, Christine writes and speaks on women’s health, sexuality, and midlife vitality, helping people cultivate love, reverence, and radiant wellbeing in every stage of life.