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Discernment. Targeting Your Raw Fears. Becoming Unoffendable | Founder Letter 8_4_24

Discernment. Targeting Your Raw Fears. Becoming Unoffendable | Founder Letter

Dear Rosies,

As we go into the next three months of political content, I want to make a plea for all of us to refine our discernment.

One way to do this is to be aware of the data tools being amassed against you to guide your choices. If you have the time, I recommend reading this article, "How Political Campaigns Use Your Data to Target You". It might shock you to learn how data brokers collect information from browser cookies, web beacons, mobile phones, social media platforms, and more. They then deliver this profile information to advertisers, who customize their messaging to speak directly to you. They might even say the opposite to someone else! (Note: If you want to see the ads a campaign is running on Facebook, there is a transparency function that makes contradictory messages evident. However, this transparency is not as readily available in the broader world.)

This chart is from the EFF article: "A sample of some categories and inferences in a political data broker file.” This implied profile of you would accompany your name, IP address, phone number, home address, shopping behaviors, who you are related to and more.

In the face of this- KNOWING that we are being manipulated at the base of our biological and emotional stack - to fear, to blame, to divide- we have a choice.

We could use this as an opportunity to become less reactionary, more unoffendable and to stand as the embodiment of a unified and harmonious culture and country, the tone and feeling of the future you want to create, a future you want to live in.

PENDULUMS

I find the concept of “pendulums” very helpful. Vadim Zeland, the author of the Reality Transurfing series, introduces this concept as a central idea in his work. Pendulums, he writes, are energetic entities (and often become material organizations). They are formed when multiple individuals focus their thoughts and energy on a particular idea, ideology, or movement. This collective energy gives the pendulum its power and influence, which then seeks to perpetuate itself by attracting more energy. They are designed, literally, to suck your attention and energy away from what matters most to you.

Pendulums exert control over people by resonating with their energy and drawing them into specific patterns of thought and behavior. They thrive on conflict, drama, and strong emotions, as these generate more energy- and doesn’t this sound familiar?

However, pendulums can be destructive because they often lead people away from their true desires and individual paths. They create dependencies and can manipulate individuals into actions that serve the pendulum rather than the person’s own interests.

Pendulums work by attracting attention through resonating with certain emotions or thoughts within individuals. For example, a political movement might resonate with feelings of injustice, drawing more people to support it. By engaging with a pendulum, individuals unknowingly feed it their energy, which can manifest in various ways, such as participating in debates, conflicts, or simply being preoccupied with the pendulum’s focus.

When individuals align themselves too closely with a pendulum, they can lose touch with their true selves and their unique life paths. They begin to act in ways dictated by the pendulum rather than their own intuition or desires.

To break free from a pendulum, we need to become aware of its influence and consciously choose not to engage with it. This involves detaching emotionally and mentally from the pendulum and redirecting one's focus towards personal goals and inner harmony.

As a practical approach for reclaiming personal power, and being less susceptible to being swayed by pendulums, try these things:.

  • Awareness: Recognize when a pendulum is influencing your thoughts and actions.
  • Detachment: Consciously detach from the pendulum by shifting your focus away from it.
  • Intentional Living: Reclaim your energy and direct it towards your own intentions and goals.
  • Inner Balance: Maintain inner balance and harmony to avoid being easily swayed by pendulums.

SAMPLE INTENTION

I have been working with a personal intention around this, which I will share with you:

As the world attempts to divide us, I rest in my inner heart. I live in the awareness of something greater, I am both infinite and infinitesimal. I am in right relationship to wonder. I know what I am here to do. I lay down all arms, of all kinds, inner and outer, known and unknown. I become unoffendable. Love, Serve, Remember.

To Intentionally Living,

Christine

Frequently asked

What does it mean to become "unoffendable"?
In this letter, becoming unoffendable means choosing not to be reactive when the world tries to divide us. Rather than absorbing every provocation, you rest in your inner heart, stay aware of something greater, and decline to hand your energy over to fear, blame, or division. It is a practice of steadiness, not indifference.
What is a "pendulum" in Reality Transurfing?
In Vadim Zeland's Reality Transurfing, a pendulum is an energetic structure formed when many people focus their thoughts and emotions on the same idea, ideology, or movement. That collective energy gives the pendulum power, and it seeks to sustain itself by attracting more attention. Pendulums thrive on conflict, drama, and strong emotion, and can pull people away from their own true path.
How can I stop being manipulated by fear-based media and targeting?
Start with awareness of how data brokers and campaigns build a profile of you to speak directly to your fears. Then practice detachment: notice when a pendulum is pulling your attention, consciously shift your focus, and redirect your energy toward your own intentions and inner balance rather than the conflict on offer.
What is a discernment intention I can use during divisive times?
Christine shares this one: "As the world attempts to divide us, I rest in my inner heart. I live in the awareness of something greater, I am both infinite and infinitesimal. I am in right relationship to wonder. I know what I am here to do. I lay down all arms, of all kinds, inner and outer, known and unknown. I become unoffendable. Love, Serve, Remember." You can adapt it as a daily practice of reclaiming your center.
Christine Mason

Christine Mason

Founder & Author, Rosebud Woman
Christine Marie Mason is the founder and CEO of Rosebud Woman, a leading brand in women’s intimate wellness and self-care. She is the author of six books on embodiment, intimacy, and awakening, and the host of The Rose Woman podcast—ranked in the top 5% worldwide. A longtime yoga and consciousness teacher, Christine writes and speaks on women’s health, sexuality, and midlife vitality, helping people cultivate love, reverence, and radiant wellbeing in every stage of life.